Question of the Day


John Gray

Dear John,

Can you be in love with someone if you have never met him or her?

~ Beautiful Dreamer, in Glen Falls


Dear Dreamer,

There are many kinds of love. The kind of love you are describing is infatuation, in which you are strongly attracted to someone in a worshipful way. Infatuation can occur in the same room, or across a theater toward a movie screen. True love, on the other hand, takes attraction, commitment and respect over the course of the lives of the two people involved. If you want to turn your infatuation into true love, know that your attraction will first have to be reciprocated then take on the test of time.

John Gray

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